Why I Openly Discuss My Son's Death From Drugs

We did everything the experts told us to do. We diddrugs (the fact that even doing drugs is a crime,
what we thought was right. But lurking around everynotwithstanding) they don't need to be sequestered in
corner was the Monster. The Monster was waiting tojail with hardened criminals. They need treatment, not
pounce on us and steal our dreams and destroy ourpunishment.
future. He did. Bigtime!Although ridiculed, Nancy Reagan was spot on with
You may know the Monster by another name - Drugs!her "Just Say No" message. But that won't work in
Whatever name you give him, he's an unforgiving andand of itself. We must attack this with as much vigor
unrelenting monster who, according to the DEA, claimsas the anti-tobacco campaign. Until science discovers
the lives of one American every 20 minutes.a cure for addiction, the only remedy truly is prevention.
When our son died, I could not bring myself to utter the"Be smart - Don't start."
words - "he died from a multidrug overdose." I couldWe have to start early on talking to our kids about
merely say his heart stopped. He was a 31-year-olddrugs, showing them the horrific consequences of drug
Paramedic and RN. The dregs of society? No. He wasabuse. Let them see the drug addicts in hospitals and
a young man with promise, talent, intelligence, goodnursing homes who are alive but not really living.
looks, kindness and every loving attribute you canIt is never too early to talk to our kids about drugs, but
describe.it can be too late.
Some kids do drugs to feel good or their peers enticeOur schools must implement drug prevention classes
them to do so but a lot of kids start taking drugs tobeginning with first grade and tailored to their level of
self-medicate their emotional pain.comprehension!
We can no longer remain silent about drug addiction.We must make mental illness a top priority. If we don't,
For far too long we've sat back and let the expertswe run the risk of more Cho Seung Hue's and others
speak for us. Now we must speak.of his ilk, in our midst.
We must not only get a firm handle on drug addictionAll of us must be proactive. The time has long passed
but we must do all that we can to help the mentally ill.to close our ears and eyes to this abomination
Mental illness and drug addiction quite often go hand inperpetrated on our children by the drug dealers - the
hand.true Addiction Monsters.
Three and four week rehabs are not the answer.I am one of the mothers of a child who died from the
Jail time is not the answer. Unless an addicted persondisease of addiction and I am speaking up. Won't you
has committed a crime while under the influence ofjoin me?